Between Cock and Pain – What Men Say When They're Disconnected From Their Own Heart
- Lia Schmitt
- Jun 6
- 2 min read
Updated: 1 day ago

🧨 Why do men write things like:"I want to fuck you hard and dirty"...? 😶🌫️🍆💦
Because many men have never truly learned how to relate to feminine energy 🙈
Because they confuse desire with emotional closeness 💔
Because they see sex as an act of power – not as a moment of connection 😢🤝
They write these things because deep down, they are hungry 🍽️
Not for roughness – but for touch 🤲
For being seen 👁️
For feeling themselves again 🫀
But instead of showing vulnerability, they throw words like weapons ⚔️🩸
Harsh. Raw. Without boundaries.
I don’t respond with anger 😤
I respond with clarity 🕊️
I’m not an object. 🚫
I’m a space –A space of sensuality 💫, depth 🌊, and wild heart 🔥🤍
And whoever enters this space must know:The feminine cannot be fucked.
She can only be felt 💓
📩 What I receive every day – a glimpse:🔻 Typical messages women like me receive regularly:
• “I want to fuck you hard.” 🍆
• “Can you take my dick deep in your mouth?” 🤐
• “I want to use you – like a whore.” 😶🌫️
• “How much for without condom?” ❌🧤
• “I want to tie you up and make you obedient.” 🪢😵💫
• “Are you wet and horny today?” 💦👀
• “I want to cum all over your face.” 😶🌫️😵
• “I want to impregnate you.” 🧬
• “I want to fuck every hole raw.” 🚫🔞
• “I need something really dirty today or I’ll lose it.” 🤯• “How much for anal, deepthroat, bareback, feet, spanking?” ❓💣👣
• “I want you to fuck me hard with a huge dildo up my ass.” 🍑🔩🍆
This is not fantasy 🧠💭This is verbal violence 💣💥And it’s aimed at a human being – not a doll 🪆
I don’t publish this because I’m prudish 🙅♀️
I publish it because I want clarity 🕯️
Because I want dignity 👑
Because I no longer want women to accept these messages as normal 💔💬
I am not your outlet. 🧯
I am not your projection screen. 🪞
I am a feeling being 💫
With heart ❤️
With boundaries 🚷
With depth 🌌
And yes –You can find all that in me.If you truly want it.
If you're ready –not to take, but to meet 🤝🌹
For the return of sacred desire 🔥
For real intimacy 💞
For a new masculinity 🕊️
Lia 💋🌙
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